The Sunday Letter: Edition 4
a week of small wins: from dopamine boosts to cozy mornings
Hi, lovely readers —
This week flew by in what felt like 20 seconds, packed with errands and an extra-long to-do list. But today, I’m feeling a real sense of accomplishment—and for that, I’m grateful. I’m especially proud because I finally pushed through a bit of mental fog and gathered all my thoughts on finding a dopamine boost that doesn’t involve endlessly scrolling Instagram. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do!
Before we jump into this week's favorite finds in Objects of Desire, I just want to take a second to reflect on how even the smallest, most intentional steps toward joy or grounding ourselves can completely shift the vibe of a week. It might be diving into something that tickles a new part of your brain, using your hands on a creative project while staying truly present, or simply lingering with a line from a poem that recently resonated while getting some fresh air—these little moments always remind me to slow down and appreciate the details.
Objects of Desire
There’s something undeniably comforting about wrapping your hands around a beautifully crafted ceramic mug—the perfect weight, the gentle curves—making my morning coffee feel like more than just a routine. My go-to is rightly called the Comfort Mug, and it’s become a cherished part of my mornings. But beyond that, I’ve gathered a few other favorites from around the internet that I absolutely love.
Lately, I’ve been pairing my morning coffee with my planner and a simple, hand painted taper candle—just 10 minutes of quiet before the kids are up, and it sets the tone for the day beautifully.
Next week, I’ll be sharing a dedicated Valentine’s Day gift guide (or sooner on Instagram), but in the meantime, here are a few top picks, with more guides linked here.
A lovely (and surprisingly affordable) Diamond & Semi-Precious Gemstone Drop Necklace—PSA: it’s made to order, so now is the perfect time to ensure it arrives on time!
If you’re planning a cozy stay-in Valentine’s dinner, what’s better than luxurious loungewear? Pair it with a Kate McLeod Sex Stone for a smooth segue into the evening (before or after dinner).
The Mescola Cocktail Set, a stunning collaboration between two of my favorite brands—Craighill and East Fork Pottery—is perfect for elevating your at-home cocktail experience.
More options coming soon—stay tuned!
Words to Hold
This week’s reminder comes from Jeanette Winterson’s latest on her Substack—a profound reflection on reclaiming our inner lives and our right to exist beyond the relentless push to reduce everything to data, reminding ourselves that we are more than just another moving part in the great machine.
A Recipe for the Week
Lately, I’ve been obsessed with
’s Saffron Oil Tomatoes & Beans. As a fellow bean enthusiast, I feel so seen with her pantry staple recipes—they’re simple, flavorful, and totally my vibe. If you haven’t already, I highly recommend checking out her cookbook, Justine Cooks & her newsletter!
This recipe is one of those rare flavor combos that just click. Stewed garlicky tomatoes, creamy butter beans, and a drizzle of saffron vinaigrette? It sounds fancy, but it’s actually super easy and beyond delicious. And the turmeric-marinated onions on top? Absolute game-changer.
What’s Inspiring Me
As you probably know, I’ve always loved collecting things that inspire me—essays, videos, newsletters, book lists, or articles—and I keep them all in my commonplace book to help me find what I am looking for when I create themed content. If you've been looking for a way to do the same and haven't found a tool that works for you, a reminder that I created this simple $10 template that you can customize to suit your own specific needs in an organization tool.
Here are some things I saved recently:
What’s been on your mind lately—anything you’ve come across that’s sparked something new?
Until next time!
All my love,
-D